Who am I anyway

I am No Guru, I am not here for publicity and to an extent, belong to the No nonsense category. I am just a regular worker like any of you, I have a job to support my family, am a dad to a wonderful daughter, and just like all of you, a "good husband" in the making!I have my highs, my lows, I feel depressed at times, I am emotional at times, I cry at times, I laugh at times, freak out at times, freeze at times, get scared at times, totally inspired at times, accomplish a lot at times. So, don't compare me to some Motivational Dude out there, I am not and don't wish to be one either. So who the hell am I and why should you even read this blog? Simple - you make your choice after reading this section.

 

​- Seeing my parents skip their meals so their child can eat, I have seen poverty

- Having failed in exams, I have experienced the pain of failure

- Having been rejected by so many girls, I have experienced the agony of loneliness

- Have a dubious distinction of not clearing even one of the 300 interviews I attended

- With no job for 2 years after graduation, I have stared at "Unemployment" like no one else

- With a loan on my head, practically no money in my pocket, in a foreign land and with no courage to face life, I had decided to call if off.

 

I still recall looking down from the university terrace a few times, before stopping myself on multiple occasions with a single thread of hope that "I am not done yet" - If I die, I die fighting and not as a coward.​I worked in a call center at the wee hours at night, so If someone owned a Lexmark printer 15 years back, you might have spoken to me on phone! I worked as a lecturer, taught students at a private class during weekends, spent time at old age homes, took up Masters without knowing the basics, failed innumerable number of times at whatever task I took up (Including this website that should have been up 10 years ago).​Amidst all this crap that life threw at me, there were some key moments that I reflect upon now - I was responsible for every single thing that happened to me. I just tweaked a few things and believe me, life has been amazing ever since and No - it is NOT as complicated as what the motivational bozos out there are telling you. You see, for some reason, the mind has a knack of looking for something complex all the time and that is why these "Gurus" take advantage. If I told you that I have very simple techniques, and some bozo out there comes up with "PhD in Psychology, best selling author", who would you choose?​This site is a humble attempt to share what I have learnt and had to unlearn all for Free, yes Free. In due course we will connect through webinars, Facebook, Instagram or wherever. If you are in Singapore, let's meet up somewhere.